They say a picture is worth a thousand words. It’s simple: putting up a picture of your cute mug is half the game. It’s certainly enough to pique the interest of a guy or girl looking to meet someone new. So, you caught his or her attention. Now what?

Looks don’t tell you much about your compatibility with another person, but that’s where the rest of the profile comes in. Get as specific as you can with your keywords since they provide a great indicator of whether two of you have any shared interests that could easily spark a conversation. For instance, these  -

are a bit more informative than these -

Your HOTList is another great feature that can get your interests out there.

Lastly, the Introduction box gives you free reign to write whatever you’d like about yourself, and you should put it to good use. It’s a great opportunity to give someone a glimpse into what you’re about. This intro -

is a lot more convincing than this one -

Write something funny, charming, and honest to entice someone to message you.

Expanding your Keywords and Introduction makes things easier for someone trying to come up with an idea for a first message that you won’t be able to resist replying to. It’s like the online equivalent of getting swept off your feet. Follow these simple steps, and you’ll be on your way to meeting the best matches HOT or NOT’s got for you.

If you have any other helpful tips to share, then don’t be greedy and let us in on ‘em in the comments!

Some of my double matches on HOT or NOT

A little about me: I am a veteran here, on HOT or NOT. I first started using the site in December 2005. Since then, I’ve met some long term girlfriends, and created tons of everlasting memories. I loved the site so much, I got a job here!

So here I am, at your disposal to help you make the most of HOT or NOT… Lets start off with the basics: First, you’re here to meet women. Whether you are looking for a one night stand, or your soul mate, the reason you took the time to sign up for HOT or NOT, is strictly to meet women. If you claim otherwise, you are lying to yourself!

So here is your homework for this week: try these 5 tips to making the most of your HOT or NOT experience. Use them, and you should have a date by the end of the month. I strongly urge you to write in with your success stories, questions & comments.

1. Create a list of 3 things you want to convey to the women you message. Remember that you want to convey a high amount of value, so put your best foot forward!

2. Yes, creating an opening copy/paste message is great, because it allows you to convey yourself and save time. Still, any educated human being can sniff out a mass-message. Include some of her keywords in your message. Ask her why she has Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles as a keyword. Tell her she’s cool for having the UFC on her Hotlist!

3. Make her laugh. (with you, not at you…)

4. Don’t be needy! Look, if you come across as a guy who has cobwebs in his condom drawer, and his mom and family doctor on speed dial, you’re up for review to be deleted, very soon.

5. Keep your initial message SHORT! Look, you don’t know her, she could be a complete lunatic! Quit acting like she’s the prize. When she finally starts to catch your attention with her words, instead of her pic, then start writing more. Plus, this weeds out the ‘crazies’.

Okay, I’m out, dudes. Good Luck, see you next week!

-Nate, HOT or NOT

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