Friday Night Date: Top 5 Things Girls Should NOT Say on a First Date!
By jackie on 27 August 2010 | 2 Comments
Last week we brought you The Top 5 Things Guys Should NOT Say on a First Date and this week we are turning the tables to bring you The Top 5 Things 
Girls Should NEVER Say on a First Date!
1. “When we get married…”
Ok, this one should be really obvious but I have heard so many female friends start this sentence with a guy they’ve only been dating for a minute and it makes me cringe every time. Ladies, the one sure way to make a guy run for the hills is to start talking commitment too soon in the relationship. Most guys aren’t thinking past what they’re going to have for dinner so for heaven’s sake, don’t start pressuring them about the future, let alone your future together! Just let things happen naturally.
2. “Do you think she’s pretty?”
Here’s another gem that I hear being spewed from so many girls’ mouths. Of course he thinks she’s pretty! If you think she’s pretty and then proceed to ask him if he thinks she’s pretty, then she’s probably gorgeous and you are just looking for trouble. Don’t ask a question that you don’t want an honest answer for!
3. “My ex used to do the exact same thing!”
Ugh, can you imagine if a guy said this to YOU? You would probably smack him outside the head and then kick him while he’s down. It’s no surprise that women hate to hear about their new crushes ex -girlfriend, so what makes you think he wants to hear about your previous trysts? Keep a lid on it! Guy’s hate to be compared with other guy’s (penis envy, anyone?) so leave your ex out of it.
4. “Do I look fat in this?”
Here we have another prime example of not asking a question that you can’t handle an honest answer for. Most guys have learned the hard way that there really is no right answer to this question except an adamant “NO!” so that is what you’ll always get. Sure, it’s what you want to hear but it may not be the truth. He’s probably programmed that response in his brain but one day you might ask this question and get an honest and brutal answer. Don’t go looking for trouble!
5. “I’m fine!”
Ok, I admit I use this one all the time but it never gets me anywhere. Ever have a bad day and your guy just keeps pestering you and asking “What’s wrong?”? Snapping back an “I’m FINE!” will only baffle the poor guy because you’re saying one thing but acting completely different. We don’t want to confuse the poor things, do we? Don’t say you’re fine unless you are fine and if you’re not, just be honest. Guy’s appreciate the straight up approach so he will be grateful for your honesty and once you open up to him, you will probably start to actually feel fine!
Good luck out there and happy Friday to all!
What is the worst thing a girl has ever said to you on a first date? As a girl, do you ever say these things to guys? What kind of reaction do you get?
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By Jenn on 30 August 2010
Being on a date and trying to pick up another guy while you are on the date with the first guy! Yes, I have seen this happen. I did it myself in my early years of dating. Luckily, I grew up. If you are out with one guy, give him your attention. Not checking out the room for something you think is better. Another faux pas, don’t talk about a woman’s personal experience with how your body goes through its changes on a first date (maybe on the second!
~) A guy gets turned off hearing about your menstrual cycle while eating sushi.
By mobirox on 30 August 2010
2 gud……these points r practicaly idiotic no doubt…..keep awaay frm deez n enjoy ur …..first ……keep smilin……