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Dating Advice: Smack-Talking Tweets

By alexornot on 25 August 2010  |  No Comments

Dear Sexy Susie,

I am dating this girl who is so frigging drama like. She texts me all the time, wants to know where I am at all hours, and the worst thing is she twitters about how she thinks I am a jerk. She has a lot of Twitter followers and calls me vulgar names. She thinks she is all that, a Ms Diva. I tried to tell her once I don’t want to see her anymore, but for some reason she is not getting the message. Got any suggestions?

Drake, 23, Toronto, ON

Hello Drake,

It sounds like you have your own version of Jersey Shore.

The opening of your question is “you are dating this girl,” then you proceed to say you “tried to tell her once you don’t want to see her anymore.” It sounds like she may be getting mixed messages from you.

Talk to her in private, look her directly in the eyes, and be clear in telling her you no longer want to date her.

Choose how extreme you want to go in not seeing her anymore. If you never want to see her again in any of your social circles, block her from your Twitter, Facebook, and any other online social sites that you’re both on. If she calls you, do not answer your phone. Do not give her the time of day.

If you still want her as a friend, you have to make it clear to her that you no longer want to date her, but being friends is okay with you.

If Guidette (the girl) proceeds to talk “trash” about Guido (yourself), you might want to rethink about being friends at all.

Remember this experience the next time you’re choosing someone to date. If you picked her to date, and you claim she is all “drama like,” look at yourself and consider what type of person you are attracting. It takes two to tango.

Good luck!

Sexy Susie